Be careful—once this girl makes up her mind, it’s going to be hard for you to get her to change it! She’s probably a quick decision maker and enjoys project management. If you ask about her goals or aspirations, likely she’ll have a lot to say.

These types of girls usually thrive on sizing up a situation, setting a goal, and executing a game plan. Probably she’s applying that same “go-getter” attitude to your relationship! Very early on, she probably made an assessment of you—and it’s going to very hard to change or reverse her initial impression.

This may make her seem intimidating—or even insensitive. Keep in mind, she has a competitive spirit, and that makes it difficult for her to see beyond her “go-getter” attitude.

When planning activities or dates, here are some pointers to keep in mind:

She’s traditional and conservative—so don’t plan anything too wild or crazy without making sure she’s comfortable with it.

She respects authority and rules—so don’t act too irreverent or “badass.”

She loves routine and the familiar—so be careful with surprising her or planning anything too outside her comfort zone.

This type of girl makes up her mind, and then she’s very hard to convince otherwise. She often makes rash judgments or decisions, so be careful. Although, once she sees you as someone she likes and trusts, she will work hard at maintaining the relationship.

Don’t let her intimidate you with her competitive spirit and motivated attitude. Even if she seems insensitive or closed off at times, it’s probably no reflection of you. She just has a difficult time adapting to change or considering a new perspective. Be patient with her!

You probably already figured out that this girl is quiet and serious. She also probably has a skeptical outlook on things, and is very careful. This is not the type of girl who’s going to open to trying new things or acting outside her comfort zone.

She probably has a track record of success in her career. She’s probably a “nerd” in that she loves learning, has a strong work ethic, and prefers to be productive rather than relax. In fact, even on your date with her, she may be thinking of things she needs to get done. She’s addicted to productivity!

Sometimes this may make her seem distant, unsympathetic, or even uncaring. She’s not doing this intentionally—she’s just enjoys work! Moreover, she prefers to work quietly alone. It may be very hard for her to kick back and have fun.

At times she may things that might offend or upset you. Again, she’s not doing this intentionally; it’s just that she doesn’t always consider other people or how she’s making them feel.

More of all, she may come off stubborn at times. Probably when she makes up her mind, it’ll be very hard to convince her otherwise. Moreover, she rarely enjoys doing things that aren’t familiar to her—so be careful with planning dates! Stick to traditional places (and you may even want to ask her what sorts of things she enjoys).

While she may seem quiet and distant, if you can get her to lighten up and shed some of her skeptical, she’ll appreciate you for it!

You might want to ask this girl, “Why so serious?” Likely she’s friendly, outgoing, and sympathetic, but also takes life too seriously. She probably is very loyal to her friends and family, but often finds herself taking on too much responsibility.

Don’t be surprised if she’s stressed over her involvement in other people’s lives. She has a strong desire to be liked by others, so she often overburdens herself with other people’s problems. She has a difficult time relaxing—she’s always thinking of her responsibilities.

Also, watch what you say to her. She’s probably very sensitive and gets offended easily. If you hear about her past relationships, likely she’s abruptly ended a friendship or relationship over her hurt feelings. But because she’s so sensitive, she’ll overreact to even the slightest joke or tease. So watch what you say!

Moreover, this girl isn’t very open to change or trying new things. Likely she’s worked at the same job for a number of years and probably prefers routine and pattern. You may be hard pressed to get her to do something outside her comfort zone or try something new.

But if you can win this girl over, she’s very loyal and caring. She’ll go out of her way to make you happy and please you. As long as you remember that she has thin skin and tends to take things too seriously, you should be fine.  

Quiet and reserved, there’s much more going on with her than meets the eye. In her head, this girl is probably terrified that you might not like her. She has a very strong desire to feel liked and accepted by others. She’s probably a very good listener and eager to help and please you.

But be careful—if she becomes upset or offended, she probably won’t confront you directly. She feels a great deal of anxiety when people are unhappy or upset with her, so she has trouble asserting herself. This has probably resulted in her getting taken advantage of in the past.

Don’t expect her to share too much about herself at first. By nature, she’s a very private and reserved person. She has difficulty expressing her feelings and thoughts, and prefers to listen to others. You’ll also likely discover that she enjoys spending time alone, interested in solitary activities.

Oh, beware—don’t surprise her! She does NOT enjoy surprises and prefers to “stick to the plan.” You might want to tell her exactly what you have planned when setting up a date, as it’ll get her to feel more comfortable.(She LOVES having a definite plan!) She also enjoys familiar settings, so keep that in mind when planning dates.

As long as you’re cognizant of her feelings, you should be able to keep things on track with her. Don’t pry too deep into her personal life too early in the relationship. In fact, she’ll probably feel more comfortable just listening to you—and might even offer her help or advice. If she does, accept it—that’ll get her more comfortable with you.

Finally, don’t mistake her silence for disinterest. That’s just the way she is!

This girl is fun! She’s probably flirty, outgoing, friendly, playful, and flirtatious! Likely she loves the outdoors and lives an active lifestyle. She’s adventurous to the point of being impulsive. Her curiosity keeps her “forever young,” and she probably seems younger than her actual age.

She loves surprises—so don’t hesitate to plan an exotic or offbeat date. She’s full of energy, but be careful. She may seem more interested than she really is. She has a tendency to rush into things without thinking them through. Also, she’s a definite flirt—so watch out!

If you gets bored or feels things are getting too predictable, she may lose interest. She keep surprising her and planning adventures to keep things passionate. Also, she may have a hard time following through on goals or projects she begins (so don’t be surprised if she’s stressed over work a lot!).

Also, you may find it frustrating that she never “acts serious.” Probably this girl is addicted to flirting and joking around, making it difficult to form a genuine connection with her. Although, you will certainly have fun with her, as her many hobbies and interests will give you both busy! Just don’t expect too much from her at first. As long as you give her time to “calm down” before you take things too seriously, you’ll save yourself a lot of frustration.  

If she seems aloof or distant, that’s just the way she is. Probably she’s a very private and distant person. She likely has a hard time being intimate with men because she’s so independent.

Indeed, “independent” is a perfect word to describe her. She probably prefers to work alone. Likely she works in a quiet, less social profession (e.g., librarian). Or, if she does work in a more “social” environment, she probably doesn’t enjoy it much. At times, she may even seem cool and unemotional.

But underneath her aloofness lies a thrill-seeker. She’s likely an “adrenaline-junky” and she probably enjoys wild—and sometimes even dangerous—activities. Don’t be surprised to hear she loves rollercoasters, skydiving, and the like.

In fact, her thrill-loving attitude makes very good at handling “crisis situation.” Probably she thrives in situations where a quick decision is required. She probably has the ability to take action when everyone else is standing around. Although, once the rush of “taking action” wanes, she sometimes becomes bored and moves onto another project.

This may be a problem for her in her career. She may have a hard time finishing what she starts, often leaving many projects unfinished. Moreover, she may apply this same attitude to her dating life! Be careful—if things get too predictable, she may become bored and move on! Stay mindful of her thrill-seeking nature!

Finally, be patient with her. It may take her a lot of time to become intimate with people. She’s a very reserved and independent nature, so she may have a hard time trusting you. She often speaks directly and honestly, so you can usually trust what she says. As long as you respect her privacy, and give her time to get to know you, then you should have a great relationship with this little “thrill seeker!”

You probably already know she’s a talkative woman! Probably she feels very comfortable being the center of attention—and her hobbies probably reflect that. She’s probably had some experience in the performing art (e.g., acting, cheerleading, etc.) in the past!

Moreover, she’s probably active and takes great pride in her appearance. You won’t catch this girl showing up to a date looking frumpy! She’s optimistic and that’s probably reflected in the clothes so wears. Don’t be surprised to see her in bright colors and smelling like sweet perfume!

You’ll have plenty to talk about with her, too, as she’s likely involved in many activities and has many interests. Probably she leads a very busy lifestyle and is constantly running from one thing to the next. This may make it hard to get a hold of her!

When you do get her on a date, she’ll probably be very sensitive to your feelings. Likely she’ll go out of her way to make you comfortable and please you. But be careful! Don’t mistake this “kindness” for affection. She probably has a difficult time saying how she really feels so, while she may seem very interested, on the inside she may feel otherwise.

This also causes her to actively avoid conflicts and confrontation. She may just avoid or ignore you rather than ever tell you what’s bothering her. While she’s bubbly and talkative, she has trouble expressing her real thoughts and feelings.

This has probably led to her getting taken advantage of or hurt in the past. Also, she has a tendency to “hold on” to bad relationships. She may keep people who hurt her in her life, and this may cause her stress.

Make sure you demonstrate to her that she can trust you. Many guys will just enjoy her lavishing attention on them, and won’t think to return the favor. If you can develop trust with her, she’ll open up to you. Encourage her to speak openly to you, and you’ll enjoy a great relationship with this active lady!

Gentle, compassionate, and modest, this girl probably comes across as very unassuming and maybe even reserved. It may be frustrating getting to know her because she’s such a private person. Likely she prefers “behind the scenes” activities and doesn’t enjoy being the center of attention.

Underneath that detachment, however, she’s probably very sensitive. Likely she deeply cares about the feelings of others and tends to see the “best in people.” You will rarely hear this girl criticize anyone—even those who have wronged her!

In fact, since she has a hard time asserting herself, she may be holding onto some negative feelings or grudges. In fact, you may offend or upset her and never even know it! Very often she will “fall into line” and not do what she really wants to do. When asking her what she wants to do, she’ll likely say, “It’s up to you.” But be careful! She may not like what you have in mind, even if she doesn’t speak up.

To make this relationship work, be sure to encourage her to speak her mind. This may be hard for her at first, but keep at it. You’re much better off getting an honest answer out of her rather than let her hide her true feelings, and then later resent you for it. Also, respect her sensitivity. She may get discouraged when she’s stressed.

Her natural tendency to trust people will probably make her like you quickly. Although, be careful. That trust also makes her vulnerable—and she’s probably been hurt in the past. As long as you take it slow and allow her to come out of her shell over time, you should enjoy a great relationship! 

There’s a very good chance this girl is a major nerd! Probably she’s a perfectionist who is very successful in much of what she does. She’s committed to bettering herself and the world around her, and she probably has a deep love of learning.

Likely she’s a bookworm who has very high standards. Her perfectionist nature probably keeps her working long hours on projects. Though, don’t ask too much about them! Likely she’ll be unwilling to discuss or explain what she’s currently working on.

As you will learn, she’s a private person who prefers working alone. You may find it hard to get to know her. On top of that, she may even seem condescending at times. She may become frustrated if you fail to grasp something that seems obvious to her. Also, don’t expect a lot of praise or compliments from her, either—she’s very stringy with acknowledging what she admires in other people.

If you can connect with her on an intellectual level, you should be able to look past her “perfectionist” shortcomings. She’s a very hard working and dedicated person and her creativity and inspiration should make her a fascinating person to be around. Likely she’ll inspire you to work harder and set higher standards.

Just remain mindful of her hang-ups. Probably she won’t enjoy talking too much about her work, so don’t prod her too much about it. Moreover, you may have to bring her “back to down to earth” sometimes. Likely, she’ll be so caught up in her own head that she’ll lose touch with reality.

You might even notice that her clothes don’t match or she’s dressed inappropriately. This isn’t intentional—she just gets so caught up in her intellectual headspace, she sometimes loses sight of the world around her. Keep her grounded and respect her privacy and you should be good to go!

She’s probably making a great impression on you. Likely she’s full of enthusiasm, energy, and great stories. She’s confident, funny, and probably has great verbal skills—which she likes to show off! During the first few dates she may seem “perfect,” but beware…

She may seem very interested in you and excited to be around you. Don’t be surprised to hear lots of praise and compliments from her—especially regarding your future together. But she doesn’t always mean this. Likely she has a tendency to “talk a big game” and not follow through.

Probably she enjoys the “thrill of the chase,” getting energized in the early phases of a relationship, but later becoming bored and moving on. If you ask her, she’ll probably admit to being a bit of procrastinator. She may express a strong desire to reach her potential, but probably knows she’s her own worst enemy when it comes to getting stuff done.

Moreover, she may have even lost friends over this! People may have come to distrust her because she promises the world, but doesn’t follow through. You may want to remind her to “slow down” and even keep her guessing a bit. The more you can keep her “chasing,” the more she’ll stay excited and interested.

She has a strong need to feel liked and accepted, so be sure to compliment her, too. But you don’t want to compliment her too much (or else she might feel the chase is over)!

Overall, she’s a curious and outgoing person. She should be very easy to have a conversation with, and she’s likely a lot of fun. As long as you can keep her excited and challenge her, you should be able to keep her around for a long time. Just remain mindful of her shortcomings and help her not to fall into her old habits of moving on once things get “boring” for her!      

She may appear intimidating or even arrogant. Probably she’s very gifted in problem solving and she possesses a highly developed logical and analytical mind. Likely she enjoys learning new things and has strong inner confidence.

Though, she’s also probably very skeptical and often may seem out of touch with your feelings. Don’t expect her to hear too many compliments from her! Likely she will be very closed-off—especially early in your relationship.

Likely she’s fascinated by grand ideas and theories. She gets bored, however, with the trivial details of life. Definitely avoid small talk with her and don’t bring up trivial nonsense. She’d probably much prefer to discuss larger issues, so steer the conversation in a more intellectual direction.

Be patient with her when it comes to affection. She may seem cold or closed off, but that’s not a reflection on you. She likely has difficulty communicating with others and her skepticism keeps her detached.

If she points out your flaws or makes negative comments, it’s probably not mean spirited—that’s just the way her mind works! She’s incredibly adept at seeing the flaws in things and offering solutions.

Though, don’t get offended if she refuses your suggestions or offers to help her! She adamantly resists help from others, preferring to solve her issues on her own. She has a very creative mind and will often see possibilities where others can’t. But she definitely has a “blind spot” when it comes to considering other people!

Understanding this, don’t feel let down when she doesn’t outwardly praise you or shower you affection. She’s not cold by choice—it’s just the way her mind works. Simply keep the conversation away from mundane topics and don’t let her skepticism bring you down. If you can do that, you will enjoy some very interesting insights from her gifted mind—even when she’s criticizing you!

Bubbly, enthusiastic, and compassionate, this girl feels her best when she's helping others. She really cares deeply for the needs and happiness of other people, and bends over backwards to please. But you probably already know this from the friendliness she's already displayed.

But be careful: she's extremely sensitive. She likely has a tendency to take things too personally, so watch what you say. Moreover, she often puts very high expectations on relationships, and then feels disappointed when things don't pan out as she envisioned. So be sure to follow through on what you do and say with her! You may even want to be careful when you're joking around and flirting with her—she may misinterpret what you say.

She feels most energized when in social settings, so try taking her out to busier venues. She prefers to have a solid game plan so take that into consideration when planning your time together. At times she can become inflexible and stubborn. But usually she'll trade honesty for harmony and she may go along with something, even if she's not enjoying it. Try to get her to speak up about what makes her happy (or else she'll just go along with what makes you happy, and possibly resent you for it).

Overall, this girl is extremely compassionate. Her empathy toward others will make her a pleasure to be around. Moreover, her enthusiasm and energy will make her a hit a party. Give her an opportunity to make you happy, as she truly enjoys pleasing others, but also make sure she's taken of, too—even if you have to ask her a few times!

I hope you like talking because this girl loves listening! Likely she’s gentle and soft-spoken, with patience to boot. Don’t be surprised to learn she has some creative talents or interests. Likely she is extremely productive—someone who has great organizational skills.

But don’t be fooled by her “behind-the-scenes” disposition! She’s a perfectionist in disguise! Likely she sees what she does as very important, causing her to take herself very seriously. In fact, her single-minded determination can make her stubborn at times, and she may even seem dismissive.

Even though she feels a strong desire to make you happy, she also won’t be shaken by your criticism of her. She’ll continue to do what she thinks is right, even if you’re opposing her. While she seems inflexible on the outside, she’s very sensitive and likely feeling hurt by your disapproval.

So watch what you say because you may offend her and then never hear from her again! Indeed, she’s probably abruptly dumped people her life that quickly!

However, if you encourage her ideas, as well as give her opportunities to support you (which she really enjoys!), you should enjoy a great relationship with this girl. Once she’s committed to someone, she goes through great lengths to keep the relationship harmonious. And since she feels best when helping and supporting others, she makes being in a relationship a very enjoyable experience!   

She is the ultimate optimist! Likely energetic, enthusiastic, and creative, she’s the type of girl who “never says never.” She probably has many great ideas that will make for great conversation. In fact, you will probably be overwhelmed with how quickly she can think up a unique solution or idea.

Though, probably she also gets easily distracted. You’ll probably hear about how she has “A.D.D.” or finds it hard to concentrate and finish projects. This may be creating problems at her career—especially if she’s in a less creative field. If she’s forced to do the same task over and over, she becomes very bored and restless.

She probably has lots of friends and talks with ease. While she’s bubbly and persuasive, she has difficulty making decision—so you should be the one to plan the dates! And that will be easy to do because she’s a naturally fun-loving person. She especially enjoys social venues, so you may want to avoid quiet or secluded date spots.

She’s a sensitive person, and prefers to avoid conflict. Often she won’t speak up for herself, even when something is offensive or upsetting to her. She prefers to keep the peace—but often at her own risk. She can easily become moody or upset. When she does become moody, she may misjudge your intentions or unfairly blame you for things.

So, avoid this situation altogether by encouraging to speak up. If you can discuss a problem or issue she has, you’re much more likely to keep the fun, playful vibe going. When you’ve created this vibe, spending time with her will be very rewarding and enjoyable as she’s a fascinating, creative, and original spirit!

There is a very good chance this girl is some sort of hippy or spiritual person! She probably is very untraditional and might even practice an alterative lifestyle. (If she doesn’t, she certainly accepts and supports people who do practice alterative lifestyles.) She probably has strong values and a creative spirit.

You probably will find her open-minded refreshing, as she’s likely very tolerant. Make sure to ask her about her interest and hobbies, as you’ll probably find she’s most passionate when talking about things where she can immerse herself in (usually alone). She probably enjoys quiet solitary activities like reading, writing, meditation, and art. 

Though, she may seem aloof and distant at times. Likely she spends a lot of time “in her own head” and doesn’t talk much. Her constant search for meaning and purpose in her life leaves her little time for the outside world. And she probably has difficulty working a “normal” job. If she works in an office or somewhere uninspiring, she probably hates it!

Watch what you say to her, as well. Likely she’s very sensitive and you can easily hurt her feelings. Even worse, she probably won’t confront you about it or speak up. Instead, she’ll just avoid or ignore you. She’s probably done this to other people in her life. You’ll probably find she only has a few close friends.

To make it work with her, take your time getting to know her. Don’t try to rush her, and especially don’t push her into social situations too early (don’t introduce her to your mom on your second date or anything!). Give her time to trust you and see that you’re not judgmental of “different” way of looking at things.

Moreover, make sure to support and encourage her creative endeavors. Likely she feels most satisfied expressing herself through her art (whatever it may be), and she’ll enjoy discussing “higher values” with you. Oh, and make sure to avoid, boring day-to-day small talk—that repulses her!

And if she turns out to be a hippy, don’t say you weren’t warned!